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Best Friend Calls Me Out

No, 100%. But I wonder if it's like— do you think it's because people want to save marriage for like when they're both like— because like, okay, so the only thing I compare marriage to is like Like, let's say you're like really like hooking up with— like, let's say you're hooking up with a girl and you want to take it slow rather than like just the first night like have sex or whatever. Like, is that what marriage is? It's like the last step of this like emotional bond that people want to save it for like the apex moment, like years, years, years down the line? Like, is that what it is? Um, maybe, because that's how I could justify it in my head. Obviously a lot of people are not ready for marriage for a really long time. I'm just like always so curious.

January 9, 202632:59Jason
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Natalie32:32
Um, no, I feel the same way.
Jason32:34
It's like you're already there.
Natalie32:35
Yeah, but maybe our perspective is just like really skewed. I also just feel like, like, to me, I don't feel— I don't feel like when you get married that your relationship should change significantly, you know? Like, I don't think that— maybe you move in toge…
Jason32:59
No, 100%. But I wonder if it's like— do you think it's because people want to save marriage for like when they're both like— because like, okay, so the only thing I compare marriage to is like Like, let's say you're like really like hooking up with— like, let's say you're hooking up with a girl and you want to take it slow rather than like just the first night like have sex or whatever. Like, is…
Natalie33:36
I also think like I think, like, for myself, I'm pretty secure in a lot of the other aspects of my life other than, like, my romantic relationship. Like, that's the only other thing. So I'm just like, yeah, fuck it. Like, let's just, you know.
Jason33:49
Yeah, you said, like, the next person you're gonna date, you're gonna marry.
Natalie33:52
Yeah, I would think so.