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Addressing Jason’s Relationship

Yeah, she thought that I didn't like the way she looked. But yeah, I really wanted her to like come here and like, I don't know, I felt like if she met my parents and like hung out with my parents, that, you know, if she could see how like our family works, that it would like, I don't know, give her some security or make her feel better or make her feel loved. And stuff. Sure. That was, that was like my goal, and I, and I, and I did. I, I wanted to, I wanted to try to change her, you know, which isn't right either, um, to say to somebody like, hey, you, you need to, you need to do these things. Yeah. You know, it's, it's, it's not right. So I don't know, have you ever had that in a relationship where you're like trying to change the person? You're like, I've only dated one person.

June 28, 201828:59Jason
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David28:23
we should say that the fight started because Jason made— Jason would constantly is an aggressive word, but would make remarks about her eating habits in a way where it's like, you should eat healthier so you feel better. Yes. Not so you look thinner or whatev…
Jason28:39
Never had a problem with the way she looked. I just wanted her to feel good because I know for me, once I cleaned up my diet, I felt a lot better.
David28:46
And to be fair, Jason said that to me maybe 8 times, 8 different times in my life. He's like, you gotta start eating healthier. You'll feel a lot better. Right. And he never attacks my weight for it. But yeah, that's what you were saying, and she— I guess she…
Jason28:59
Yeah, she thought that I didn't like the way she looked. But yeah, I really wanted her to like come here and like, I don't know, I felt like if she met my parents and like hung out with my parents, that, you know, if she could see how like our family works, that it would like, I don't know, give her some security or make her feel better or make her feel loved. And stuff. Sure. That was, that was…
David29:46
Yeah, no, I don't think so, but, but you definitely have gone through a lot more.
Jason29:50
You've never, you never had any issues with Liza where you're—
David29:53
Oh sure, no, you're right, you're right. Yes, I, uh, well that where I like would want to change something about her. Yeah. But it's just like, you're not allowed to do that.